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Do You Need a Social Media Detox? | Boudoir by Daysy

Hello, Lovely! Like it or not, social media has become a huge part of our daily lives. Even if you personally never log on to Facebook or watch TikTok videos, our society and the people around us are all affected by social media. This phenomenon can be both a blessing and a curse. On the one hand, social media allows us to stay connected with loved ones, learn new things, and expand our horizons. In fact, we at the studio use social media sites like Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube to spread body positivity messages. On the other hand, social media can cause us to doubt ourselves, play small and hide our talents, and compare ourselves unnecessarily to others. There are thousands of social media sites devoted to convincing us that we are not pretty enough, smart enough, or good enough. On a daily basis, it sometimes feels like we are being bombarded by "reminders" that we are somehow less than. Is it Time for a Social Media Detox? Let's answer the following questions to determine if social media might be making you feel bad about yourself, particularly about your body: Does social media help you to feel MORE or LESS [...]

2023-10-03T17:07:10+00:00By daysy|0 Comments

Back to School, Back to Self-Care? | Boudoir by Daysy

Hello, Bombshell! Another summer is almost in the rear-view mirror. It's time for the kids to head back to school. WHEW. Does it seem like the last few months have been a whirlwind of company picnics, summer vacation trips, pool parties, summer camps, and the kids being the center of pretty much everything? Did you spend your summer planning fun and exciting adventures for your children? What about a fun and exciting adventure for YOU? When was the last time you planned something like that? As wives, mothers, caregivers, and career professionals, we often spend a lot of time taking care of other people. This is not a thankless task at all. However, sometimes, we can use a little tender loving care for ourselves. And one of the best ways to do this? With a boudoir photoshoot, of course! Self-Care is About More Than Bubble Baths When we talk about practicing self-care, we often think of ways to feel pampered, like getting a mani/pedi or relaxing in an inviting bubble bath. Sometimes self-care can be asking for help with household chores. These are all good things, but they aren't really enough. Practicing genuine and actual self-care means we get to [...]

2023-09-03T04:20:41+00:00By daysy|0 Comments

We Get Love Letters! | Boudoir by Daysy

Hello, Beautiful! We're getting ready for a late summer rainstorm here. It's the perfect weather to curl up with a good book... or a stack of love letters from our awesome boudoir bombshells! "I Would Give More Than Five Stars if I Could!" Bombshell Teresa was positive she was not going to like her boudoir photoshoot, but she decided to go through with it, and she is so happy she did! Read on... Let me tell you about my boudoir photoshoot experience. I would give it more than 5 stars if I could! The experience was more than a photoshoot for me, it was a chance to celebrate me and my body in a way that I never have before. I’m so glad that I went for it, even though I had some fears at first. First off, I am not someone who feels comfortable in my own skin. I don’t even change my clothes in front of my partner, if you can believe that. I am the kind of person that typically hides my body. I’ve always been a curvy woman and I try to love my curves, but I’m not always successful at that. I’m also 45 years [...]

2023-08-18T15:49:56+00:00By daysy|0 Comments

I Can Read Your Mind… | Boudoir + Glamour by Daysy

Hello, Queen! I think I can read your mind. I'm sorry if that sounds a little creepy, but I think I can. Tell me if I'm on the right track--have you been thinking about any of these things recently? I've been thinking about doing a boudoir photoshoot... It sounds kind of fun... But Maybe I should get in better shape first? Do women like me even have boudoir photoshoots? What if my sexy photos get posted online? What if I don't like my photos? What if I can't pose the right way? What if my outfits are all wrong? Is this just too far outside my little comfort zone? How did I do? Have you been thinking any of those things? Have I read your mind? It's Not Magic... Or is it? Let me tell you something, my lovely. That part is not magic. The reason that I know exactly what you're thinking is that every woman who steps in front of my camera tells me these same things. They say that they were nervous before they booked. That they had a lot of questions about exactly what goes on at a boudoir photoshoot. They say that they weren't sure [...]

2023-08-09T15:49:39+00:00By daysy|0 Comments

What Goes On at the Bombshell Lounge? | Boudoir by Daysy

Hello, Beautiful! Have you ever wondered what goes on at the boudoir Bombshell Lounge on Facebook? Let's take a look! What is the Bombshell Lounge? The Bombshell Lounge is a VIP group on Facebook where our beautiful bombshells hang out! We share all sorts of stories and pictures of our journeys as strong and vital women. It's the perfect place for: Getting support and advice; Making new friends; Seeing other women experience a boudoir photoshoot; Finding inspiration for your own photoshoot; Learning about one another; and Winning fabulous prizes (boudoir photoshoot giveaway, anyone?). Yes, we all like going to Facebook and other social media outlets for quizzes, memes, and pictures and videos of cute kittens and baby pygmy goats in pajamas. However, social media can be a cold and scary place as well. Sometimes the Internet can be a place where we tear ourselves down instead of building each other up. It's great to know that there is one Facebook group out there that is full of kind, supportive, and amazing women cheering each other on. The friendship and support we share at the Bombshell Lounge isn't limited to social media! Our bombshells hang out in person too, at our [...]

2023-07-19T16:48:04+00:00By daysy|0 Comments

How to Show Off Your Boudoir Photos! | Boudoir + Glamour by Daysy

Hello, Bombshell! Let's talk about how to show off your boudoir photos! So, you've finally had your boudoir photoshoot with Daysy; it was everything you dreamed of and much more. You love, love, LOVE your images and you can't stop looking at them! You can't wait to show them to the entire planet. But what's the best way to show off your boudoir photos? Creative Ways to Share Your Photos Our studio offers a variety of custom products so that you can enjoy your boudoir photos in a variety of ways for years to come. Our most popular boudoir products are: Albums: We offer several different sizes and cover options for our heirloom-quality albums. Keep your album at your bedside or your home office so you can glance at your beautiful photos whenever you need a little boost! Wall Art: Imagine seeing your gorgeous self on the wall every day! We suggest hanging a nice big boudoir print on the wall above your bed, over the bathtub, or even in your closet. Remember that black and white photos look dramatic and stunning on walls. Digital Downloads: There are gazillions of ways to enjoy your photos when you get digital downloads! [...]

2023-05-30T17:54:45+00:00By daysy|0 Comments

Is My Body Wrong for Boudoir? | Boudoir + Glamour by Daysy

Hello, Bombshell! Do you feel like your body is wrong for boudoir? Do you look at photos of supermodels in bikinis and think that could never be you? Have you looked at the beautiful babes on this website and wondered if anyone could ever make you look that good? It's a legitimate question, one nearly every potential client asks. Everyone wants to know if she will look good in her boudoir photos. And the answer? The answer is Y E S. No matter your weight, height, or your body type, I can guarantee that you will look amazing in your boudoir photos. And here’s why: my job as a photographer isn’t to hide your “flaws,” it’s to capture and celebrate YOU. In my opinion, every woman is beautiful and it’s just my job to highlight that beauty. I’ve learned the rules about posing that help to flatter curves and pull the eye just where I want it to go. And when I apply these rules, I can bring out the beauty in any woman who steps into my studio. Guaranteed. Carrie's Story Are you still unsure? Read what Carrie has to say about her experience: What was your main reason [...]

2023-05-12T23:25:15+00:00By daysy|0 Comments

Keep Your Bombshell Vibe After the Shoot | Boudoir + Glamour by Daysy

Hi Beautiful! Today, let's talk about what happens after your boudoir photoshoot. How do you keep your bombshell vibe going after the shoot? Here's some good news: there are lots of things you can do to keep those great vibes going long after the last photo has been snapped. What Now? So, you got brave. You knew you were ready to step out of your comfort zone and embrace the beautiful bombshell you had been hiding for so long. You booked a boudoir photoshoot. You came to the studio and loved your makeover and all the sexy outfits and accessories. You loved posing and the camera loved you right back. You had a fabulous time. You saw your images and fell in love! After the shoot, you went out to dinner and loved showing off your glamorous and confident self. What now? How do you keep that fantastic feeling going? How to Keep That Bombshell Vibe The good news is there's several ways you can keep your boudoir confidence high. Here are a few: Look at your boudoir photos often. Just seeing them will help you remember that amazing confidence-building experience. Have a photo on your nightstand so you can [...]

2023-05-09T19:32:55+00:00By daysy|0 Comments

How Do You Talk to Yourself?

Hello, Beautiful! So, how do you talk to yourself? It matters. A lot. Our self-talk--the way we talk to ourselves, about ourselves--has a massive effect on our body image and sense of self-worth. What Are You Saying About Yourself? Many of us have a seemingly endless amount of internal chatter going on about ourselves. Sadly, it's not always loving or even positive. Sometimes, perhaps even often, the things we tell ourselves are negative and cruel. When you talk to yourself, does it sound like: I can't believe you forgot to pick up milk. You're such an idiot! You are too fat to wear that bikini. You'll never get that promotion because you just aren't good enough. The tone of your self-talk can have a massive impact on your body image and sense of self-worth. Even self-deprecating comments in the name of humor can lower your self-esteem. Try a Little Kindness If you want to feel better about your body, if you want to feel more empowered, if you want to feel more confident … try monitoring your self-talk! For example, instead of telling yourself, “I can’t believe you made that mistake. You’re an idiot,” try this: “You made a mistake, [...]

2023-04-07T23:42:59+00:00By daysy|0 Comments

Boudoir Photoshoot Myths Debunked | Boudoir + Glamour By Daysy

Hello, Beautiful! Are you still hesitating about booking a boudoir photoshoot? I bet it's because of boudoir photoshoot myths. I'm here to debunk those myths for you right now, so you can stop hesitating and book that photoshoot for yourself! Top Boudoir Photoshoot Myths I have to be naked. Nope! You do not have to do anything you aren't comfortable with. This includes deciding what to wear or not to wear. Yes, you can opt for a nude boudoir, but plenty of women stay clothed. Boudoir is never about being uncomfortable. I need to lose weight first. What? Why? Boudoir is all about capturing your amazing beauty, right now, just as you are. The best part? Seeing your gorgeous photos, photos of the real you, and realizing how absolutely stunning and sexy you are. This is the magic of boudoir photography. You get visual proof that you are a bombshell, and the number on the scale means nothing. I'm too old. Noooooooo, you are not too old. You are not "too" anything for an incredible boudoir photoshoot. As women, our lives are in a state of constant transition. The experiences you've had over the years have shaped you into the [...]

2023-04-12T20:12:51+00:00By daysy|0 Comments